Pre Marriage Sex

What do u not know about "Pre Marriage sex"!!!!, its all spelt out, western movies, down to Indian movies and now Pakistani movies they all are pretty good in communicating "Pre Marriage Sex", I mean its nothing new its an ancient phenomenan and its deplorable as to how people wanna put this least important matter in the forefront and the rest of them in the back seat. My friend , with all due respect to u what do u wanna know about sex before marriage???? In Islam it is considered "Haram" in Christianity as the bible says" Thy shall not fornicate" is again considered not permissible, judaism and the rest of the religions say the same. Obviously secularism in the western socities that bifercate the two important elements of a healthy society are now facing the ramifications of teen pregnancies, babies growing up without fathers, kids being put into orhanages, when one is to view this on a massive scale it paints a "Horror Story". The little that its being practised in the Muslim world leaves some hope to foster because this is the basis of the rise and fall of a society. All the tech advancement look all great!! but the depreciation that unravels and brings down the entire edifice is morality or free sex or pre sex marriage. Having said all of that I think we ought to move our mentalities to the next level and focus on more important issues, free sex, pre sex all this garbage we see it all day, and we do not need so much emphasis on it......

The best thing is to wait. The moral thing is to wait. If you respect the woman and want a committed relationship and something special then wait. Many would say test drive the car but don't. I think that she will have more respect for you for not pressuring her to have premarital sex. I also think that learning things together as a married couple is better. You will have more self esteem and she too because you won't wonder if she is thinking about previous partners or vice versus. It then becomes something special. Who wants someone that is all used and abused. You won't have any preconceived notions either if you wait. It really works both ways. That is why it is so good to wait. Then there are the issues of all the things you can contract from not being moral. If you wait and find the same in a partner you will never have to worry about any diseases. I think that you have something special to give, so save it for someone who deserves it. But the nice thing is you have your free agency to choose one way or the other. I think it is bad and I've said why.